The Vela Blog

Notes from a neurodivergent household and a speech therapy practice

Practical ideas on speech, language, and executive function, written by Velia Gonzalez, MS, CCC-SLP, for parents who want to understand their child, not fix them.

Executive Function

“Even Though”: The Magic Phrase for Getting Your Kids to Do the Hard Thing

A simple sentence frame that gives kids the words, and the inner voice, to keep going when something feels hard.

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Executive Function

Why Cleaning Day Turns Into a Bigger Mess (and the Phrase That Helps)

Cleaning side quests, tasks vs. projects, and the calm phrase that helps kids get back to the job in front of them.

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Executive Function

The Morning We Woke Up Late, and Our Routine Still Held

Four kids, a late start, and a routine that held anyway, because the kids knew the system and only needed to know what to cut.

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Executive Function

Executive Function: Why I Stopped Trying to Make Everything Fun

Life still asks kids to do boring things. Why learning to tolerate them matters, and where everyday routines come in.

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Early Language

The Day I Realized My Toddler Was a Late Talker as a Speech Pathologist

If a speech pathologist can miss the signs in her own toddler, any parent can. Three simple first steps that helped her son start talking.

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Executive Function

Why Your Morning Routines Aren't Sticking

The small change to the visual schedule that helped a neurodivergent household's mornings finally run on their own.

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Neurodiversity

What a Hive Taught Me About Neurodiversity

Honeybee research, Dogon teachings, and a different question to ask about every child: what is this child's place in the hive?

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